5 Ways to Truly Enjoy Your Wedding Day! by Sonya Yruel


So you’ve been planning your wedding for months, maybe more than a year, and the big day has arrived. All that excitement, anticipation, and let’s be honest, stress, has culminated in this particular calendar day or weekend.

As a photographer, it’s my job to be observational. And I see that jittery excitement when I arrive for the getting ready photos, and I love that energy! And all the while your tables are being set, the alter is being flowered, and the DJ is doing their sound check. However, on a wedding day, some things might not go as planned, sometimes small things, sometimes bigger things. You’ve spent all that time planning and you want it to go perfect! Well as the main observer and documenter of your wedding day (and having been a bride myself), I will say that the most important thing a couple can do on their wedding day, is ENJOY it! Sometimes easier said than done when the worries get in the way, yes? So here are some tips:

1. Eat, drink, and then be married.

Given the morning jitters, some couples forget to eat breakfast or drink water when they are getting ready. You will need that energy to sustain you for a full day, so eat something nutritious and drink plenty of water (ok, now I sound like your mom). Sure, have a toast of champagne, or whiskey, with your bridal party, but some food and hydration go a long way!
Also, I want you to enjoy all the delicious food your caterer is making. After the ceremony we will most likely be taking family photos. So have your caterer put together a sampler plate of the cocktail hour appetizers to bring over to you for some quick bites. This is the time of day when I sometimes see my couples’ energy start to wane, so grab a bruschetta and then let’s go take the couple portraits (the most important photos of the day!).


2. Comfortable shoes.

You are wearing your finest on your wedding day. But don’t buy new shoes to go with your stunning dress or suit and never wear them around a bit. Standing in them at a fitting doesn’t count! I love photographing an awesome pair of Louboutins anytime. But if your dogs are barking, chances are, you won’t be having the best time at your wedding! So bring a secondary pair of shoes that are stylish but also comfy, and switch into them after the ceremony. And ladies, I’ll be honest most wedding dresses don’t show your shoes anyways! Also, if your shoes restrict your ability to move and walk, it will limit those amazing photos I am excited to take!


3. Rely on your wedding party.

I hope they are not just there to look good! These are some of your best friends, cousins, siblings, etc. These are your people, your entourage. And while they may also look good, don’t hesitate to ask them for help, both before your wedding day and during! The best bridal parties are the ones making sure you have had something to eat and drink, will hold your bouquet, dress train, lip gloss, etc. for you. They will run back to the room to get the forgotten hanky that was your grandma’s, be the first on the dance floor to rally the party, they'll make you laugh when you’re feeling nervous, and grab you a tissue when you need it. Dress needs bustling? They are on it—and don’t forget to practice this with your bridesmaid before the wedding day!


4. Trust your vendors.

You have spent months researching vendors, requesting references, reviewing samples of their work, and meeting with them. And you chose vendors whose work you like, communicate well with you, and who also have personalities that jive with yours. Congratulations, you have now put together your own super wedding team! And the coordinator will be there to oversee them all, so relax and know you’re in good hands with seasoned professionals.


5. In the words of Frozen, “let it go!”

This might be the hardest, but most important one of all. There are a lot of moving parts to a wedding, and some things may happen that are unpredictable. But if you roll with it and remember why you are there, who you are getting married to, and that all your favorite people in the world are there to celebrate with you, then this will be one of the BEST days of your life. And as a photographer, I really love capturing my couples when they are having a phenomenal time. Your happiness shines through in the photos, and that is when those magical moments happen!


Sonya Yruel has been documenting weddings for over a decade and she loves seeing her couples having the best day of their lives!
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Catherine & Jeremy's Russian River Wedding by Sonya Yruel

In honor of their five year anniversary that's just a few days away, I wanted to share a special wedding, with words from the beautiful bride!


How did you pick your venue?

"Nestled in the Russian River Valley’s tiny town of Monte Rio is the Highland Dell Lodge. As most of our friends and family were going to have to travel to the wedding from either the East Coast or elsewhere, we decided to make our wedding a bit of a destination. It’s quiet in Monte Rio. There’s spotty cell service and everyone seems to know everyone else. It’s exactly the sort of place we felt comfortable hosting an intimate wedding (around 90 people). Of course, Herb Loose’s food at the tasting blew us away, so there was that. We were able to rent the entire lodge for the entire weekend for the event. Herb and Ingrid were even kind enough to let us have an Easter egg hunt for the kids the morning after the wedding. It felt like having a wedding at your family’s house."


How would you describe the style of your wedding?

"Our wedding was truly a unique mix of vintage and modern:  my dress was from a Rivini trunk show and never actually manufactured. My husband's suit was from Decades, the vintage store in the Haight in San Francisco. It's this beautiful sharkskin material from the 1960's, trimmed in black. It caught my eye on a mannequin and by some strange miracle fit him like a glove. He wore it with this tiny ladybug pin his grandmother gave him, and vintage cufflinks from the 1960's"


"Jeremy and I are huge fans of costuming from the early years of Mad Men, and thought it would be fun to have a Mad Men inspired wedding."


"Tiny photos of my family and ancestors were printed out and put into little frames that adorned my bouquet. I felt like everyone walked me down the aisle that day."


"My mother gave me a beautiful set of double pearls that have been hers for some time. It's a tradition in the family to give pearls to the bride when she gets married. My sister lent me her vintage Dior earrings (she wore them to her wedding over 20 years ago.)"


"We couldn't find a wedding band (for me) that fit the idea I had in my head. On a trip to North Carolina we visited Ron at Stonehaven Jewelers and described what I wanted. He created my ring from a sketch at his gallery. I didn't see it until the wedding day. It was perfect!"


"We had set up a small table with photos of my ancestors and family where we lit some candles in their honor. Our ceremony was neither strictly Western nor strictly Vietnamese. We took a bit from each and blended them together to make our own unique ceremony."


"The bridesmaid dresses were from designer Alfred Sung and all different, but in silhouettes that were true to the era while flattering each woman. I spent months prior to the wedding finding 1960's jewelry for the bridesmaids."


"The groomsmen wore Vera Wang black label tuxedos with Goorin Brother hats gifted from the groom."


"We had two Mad Men inspired drinks concocted for cocktail hour -- the "Cat-a-tonic" which is a drink with St. Germain that I love. The second was the "Madison Ave:" A Manhattan with gin instead of bourbon, Jeremy's pick."


"The gifts were petit fours from Swiss Colony, the traditional Christmas cakes that Jeremy's family orders yearly."


"We brought the cake we had at our City Hall civil wedding, from Tartine Bakery in San Francisco (passion fruit lime Bavarian covered in coconut). It was topped with our custom wedding cake topper made by my Maid of Honor."


"I was really nervous before surprising Jeremy with my own rendition of “The Way I Am” by Ingrid Michaelson at the reception. But all went well and I only missed one musical cue when guests were clapping."


"My maid of honor is devilishly good at baking and decorating chocolate cupcakes. She relented and made beautiful rose cupcakes for our dessert table, which was filled with nostalgic sweets:  carrot cake as the groom's cake (Jeremy's favorite), a jar full of Ghiradelli chocolates from San Francisco where we met, and another jar full of my mother's favorite chocolates, Ferrero Rocher."


How would you describe your wedding?

"People must say this all the time, but it was the happiest day of my life. It felt amazing to know that I was going to be surrounded by (most of) the people I love. It was an intimate and elegant, but cozy affair, filled with old and new traditions."

Vendor Love (not yet mentioned):

Coordinator:   Diane Wolk of Bustled Events
Hair & Make-Up Stylist:  Melisa Hall
Second Photographer:  Elizabeth Tichenor
Stationary:  Custom designed and silk screened by the bride and groom
Flowers:  From Pro Flower's Bridal division, assembled by bridal party
Officiant:  Bridesmaid Bich-Nga Nguyen
DJ & Lighting:  DJ Quantum of blueEDGE Productions
The Bride's engagement ring:  Cresalia Jewelers
Film Processing:  Photoworks San Francisco

The sketch of the bride's custom ring, by Ron from Stonehaven Jewelery:


Lauren & Nate's Elopement at San Francisco City Hall and the Proper Hotel by Sonya Yruel

Having flown in from Denver, I asked Lauren and Nate why they picked San Francisco to get married. Aside from Lauren having once lived here, they picked San Francisco because it was one of their first trips together as a couple. And let's face it, the magnificent architecture of City Hall makes for a pretty amazing wedding backdrop!

I asked them about hitting it off, and they said "it was their strange sense of humor and ability to make each other laugh at absurd things." Truly as we went all over City Hall taking photos, these two were equally romantic as they were silly. The synchronized jump-and-heel-click, that you see below, was all them! They are both easygoing, love hiking, biking, skiing, and good food, so their love connection in the Mile High city with quick access to the Rocky Mountains is a perfect place for them to call home.

And can I please mention how amazing these two looked? I love when couples bring their personal style to shine on their wedding day. Lauren in her colorful floral print dress, red lips, classy updo, and yellow (ahem, Prada) shoes was a knockout. And Nate looked quite dapper in his suit. Both were complimented by bright pops of yellow florals from one of my favorites, Ampersand.

After their ceremony, we walked back to their hotel, the new Proper, which has quite an eclectic and bohemian style, for drinks at their rooftop bar. Later, dinner with some local friends and a luscious tres leches cake from Tartine was the perfect last touch to their amazing day.


Kathryn & Kyle's San Francisco City Hall Wedding and Intimate Dinner Reception at Trou Normand by Sonya Yruel

The sun was shining in San Francisco for Kathryn & Kyle civil wedding at San Francisco's City Hall this past fall. Their closest friends and family gathered under the rotunda to witness their nuptials. And then later they celebrated at Trou Normand's private patio, an intimate European-style oasis in the midst of the tall buildings of the financial district. The evening sparkled and was a lovely intimate affair. And a big congratulations to Kyle and Kathryn, who recently welcomed their new baby into the world!

City Hall florals by Rae and Rose Floral Co
Reception Venue:  Trou Normand


Sam & Ray's San Francisco Engagement Session! by Sonya Yruel

Sam and Ray first met and started dating in San Francisco, when Sam was going to school at USF. They now live in Texas, so they were excited to come back (we all leave our hearts in San Francisco) and spent a fun-filled day running around and visiting a bunch of their favorite and most memorable spots!

Alamo Square & the Painted Ladies

The University of San Francisco...such a beautiful campus in the middle of the city!

Battery East with stunning views of the Golden Gate Bridge, and the classic Palace of Fine Arts


No trip to San Francisco is complete with a ride on a cable car!

A walk along the Embarcadero at the Ferry building, and the Bay Bridge is so beautiful at sunset.

Cupid's Arrow

A romantic stroll along Pier 7 at twilight, with views of the Transamerica.

"Will you be my best man?" Drinks at the Dirty Habit!

We concluded the day at Dirty Habit, where Sam and Ray had their first date!

Laura and Nick's Elopement at the Marin Civic Center by Sonya Yruel

Laura told me that her love story with Nick crossed an ocean. The spark between them began with a mutual love of music and grew when the two met for the first time in London. Laura had flown there to attend the Tattoo Convention. Over time the two have become each others best friends. She says that their love is that kind of fulfilling love that makes each other the best version of themselves.

It was such a joy to spend the afternoon with these two for their elopement! We headed off to the Marin County Civic Center in San Rafael, for their civil ceremony on the terrace. The building is a stunning work of mid-century architecture by Frank Lloyd Wright. As you glide up the escalator, the building seemingly expands before you. The scalloped repeating balconies were beautiful lines to frame the happy couple!

After their wedding, we headed off the beautiful Marin Headlands, for amazing views of San Francisco and the Golden Gate. Then we headed into San Francisco to Fort Point, for views under the bridge. Then the classic Palace of Fine Arts, and last but certainly not least, a favorite neighborhood, North Beach!


Welcome Baby Evelyn! ~ An Oakland Newborn Session by Sonya Yruel

Beautiful baby Evelyn was about two weeks old when I got to meet her at her. I loved the textures and window light that came together for this session, and soft neutral tones against her brand new skin. My style is less about posing the baby and more about capturing how the family interacts together. She was all snuggles with her parents, who naturally, absolutely adore her. It is always special to me to be able to document these new and fleeting moments for young families!

Lauren & Will's Wedding at the Marin Art & Garden Center by Sonya Yruel

Lauren and Will started out as friends, and despite a first hangout that ended with a piggy back ride gone wrong (hello gash to the forehead and emergency room!), their friendship grew as they worked through three challenging years in their pediatric residencies in Philadelphia. It was Philly where Will proposed to Lauren, on a blustery snowy January day. Both are now pediatricians in San Francisco and are happy to be in the Bay Area where they have a lot of friends and family. But they did bring a little bit of Philly to their wedding; check out the LOVE sign at their reception!

This past spring they were married at St. Anselm Catholic Church in Marin County, California, and celebrated their marriage at the lush greenery and rose garden of the Marin Art and Garden Center. They also incorporated some of Will's family's Jewish faith with the breaking of the glass at the end of their ceremony, and then later dancing a lively hora. These two had so much joy and laughter at their wedding, which I loved photographing!

Marci & Kyle's Radonich Ranch Wedding, Los Gatos, California by Sonya Yruel

Nestled below the Santa Cruz mountains, sits Radonich Ranch, a 100 year old fruit-packing ranch. It's rustic and romantic vibe was the perfect choice for Marci & Kyle's wedding. Kyle had grown up in the mountains of Los Gatos, and had also proposed to Marci there, outside on the deck of their new home. Her engagement ring is a beautiful black diamond, something I rarely see!

Textures of lace, rough ranch wood, with a pop of peachy florals were in perfect harmony on their wedding day. Married under an archway, depicted in a drawing by Marci's grandpa, the Catholic priest agreed to marry them outside, saying that "nature is God's chapel." The couple and their guests dined under eucalyptus trees that swayed in the breeze, while the flower girls loved watching the mallard ducks swim by in the pond.

The Ranch feels like a place with a lot of history, and Marci remembered and carried her own history by wearing her maternal grandmother's necklace, and carrying her paternal great grandmother's beautiful handkerchief.

Later after, working the dance floor inside the barn, guests headed to the after party, complete with an Airstream and teepee for late night hanging out and celebrating.

Venue, Catering, & Rentals:  Radonich Ranch
Planner:  Vignette Events
Bride's Dress:  Wtoo by Watters
Hair Stylists:  Friends Faten & Erica from Mona Lisa Salon
Make-up Artist:  Friend Alexis from A Smooth Start
Classic Cars:  From Groom's family business, Springer Auto Restoration
Stationary:  Designed by bride's sister Nicole Pittman & drawing from Grandpa Vascone
Florist:  Wild Child Flower
Cake:  Gayles in Soquel, on the bride's great grandma's cake plate

An Indie Golden Gate Park Wedding in San Francisco by Sonya Yruel

Adrienne and Shannon wanted to have an intimate wedding with their closest family and friends, without all the fuss. Being nature lovers, Golden Gate Park felt like the right place within their city of San Francisco. Summer in San Francisco is not always so warm, but the sun was shining warmly that day! They asked their guests to wear bright colors, and the bride did as well! She created her own wedding dress by upcycling two other dresses into one! She included pockets and a ribbon inside to tie her husband-to-be's wedding band. The result was a beautiful pink ombré design like none other!

Their officiant, Cynthia Gregory, was non-denominational, but they included some older wedding rituals with nod to Paganism, such as a handfasting. The ceremony was held in the Aids Memorial Grove within the park, and was followed by a picnic lunch.

Not only did Adrienne make her dress, but she also made their wedding cake! To date it is one of the best I have tasted! This chocolate stout cake had fresh strawberry buttercream filling and a chocolate buttercream frosting. The couple had collected an assortment of vintage plates to serve up their scrumptious cake.

Thanks to Rock N Roll Bride and Huffington Post Weddings for the features!

Melisa & Laif's Winter Wedding at Old St Hilary's in Tiburon! by Sonya Yruel

When you meet Melisa and Laif, you know that these two have a passion for life that just radiates all around them! They were wed in Old St Hilary's, a little white chapel that sits on a grassy windswept hill overlooking the waters of the Bay and the cityscape of San Francisco. And in that chapel, everyone felt their excitement and love radiating as the two read their vows to each other, and sealed the deal!

The two had met thanks to a vintage cherry red Honda motorcycle named Betty. At the time, Laif was working on bikes at Piston and Chain, a community motorcycle club in San Francisco. A friend who knew Melisa, mentioned her to Laif. The very next day, Laif was helping a friend fix his bike on Divisadero street. He heard the sound of a motorcycle, looked up and saw Melisa riding by on Betty! He found her on Facebook and sent her a message. Not knowing who he was, Melisa almost deleted it....but took another look at his blue eyes in his photo, and decided to respond. They set up a date to go ride their motorcycles together, and soon became inseparable. So of course, some bike riding was necessary activity for their engagement session! And 2 years later after Melisa rode past Laif, the two wed in front of their closest family, friends, and of course Bella, their doggie ring bearer.

Their wedding was filled with all kinds of beautiful moments and super stars that made the day an amazing success! Some say rain on your wedding day is lucky, but truly it is the positive attitudes of the bride, groom, and everyone involved that makes it an amazing:

Despite the rain causing some changes in the plans, Mandy Scott pulled the details of the day together flawlessly. Before the ceremony started, Josh Gronner riffed jolly tunes on the piano, bringing smiles to the guests' faces as they patiently waited. Then Laif broke into an impromptu dance with his mom. One of the bridesmaids, the talented Lena Hall, sang beautifully as Melisa walked down the aisle with her dad. Bella, Melisa and Laif's pooch, obediently padded down the aisle carrying their wedding rings tied to her back. At the reception, Melisa's Uncle Rouben performed a surprise Armenian traditional dance that got everyone on their feet cheering! And later in the evening when the dancing was in full swing, the bride's sister, Cristina Hall, treated everyone to some of her incredible dance moves as a professional flamenco dancer. Guests told Melisa later that it was the most beautiful wedding they'd attended.

Vendor credits:
Coordination:  Mandy Scott Events
Florist:  Green Petal Designs
Getting Ready Hotels:  The Waters Edge & The Lodge at Tiburon
Ceremony:  Old St. Hilary's Chapel
Reception:  Corinthian Yacht Club
Rentals:  La Tavola
Bride's Dress:  Martina Liana
Bride's Necklace:  The famous Jewelia!
Bride's Shoes:  The Seller
Make-up Artist:  Melisa Hall
Hair Stylist:  Kelly Dale as directed by Melisa Hall
Bridesmaid Robes:  Sandy Waters
Groom's Suit:  Jos A Banks
Groom's Shoes:  Allen Edmonds
Groom's Pocket Watch:  An antique Waltham, a gift from the bride.
Stationary & Table Cards:  Designed and printed by the bride
Cake:  Branching Out Cakes
Custom Cake Topper:  Toppers Delight
Officiant:  Bride's Godfather, Tim Hornbecker
Ceremony Piano & Reception DJ & MC:  Josh Gronner
Reception Band:  Jaz Sawyer Group
Ceremony Singer:  Lena Hall
Maid of Honor, Bride's Sister, & Flamenco Dancer Extraordinaire:  Cristina Hall

I asked the bride if she had any advice for couples planning a wedding:

Follow your intuition. Listen to the inner voice that tells you what your truly wanting to do. Also be prepared to see who your true support and friends are. When you least expect it people will show up to love you through the important moments. Those that don't will gradually fade away. Stay close with your partner and listen to each other. Plan slowly and deliberately. Choose Sonya and Mandy as your wedding ninjas! Haha.
It's so important to hire the right people to take care of you on your wedding day. I always strive to do this for my brides. It's not just about the job... it's about loving them through what we do. Mandy did that for me every step of the way. I got to relax and let go because of her. She was truly the biggest gift!

It was SUCH an honor to photograph their wedding! These two are creative spirits. Melisa is one of the best hair and make-up artists, in the Bay Area, and also a photographer! Laif is a talented actor (check out his reel), and if your motorcycle breaks down, Laif is your man.

A big thank you to Melissa Campos for your photography assistance and umbrella holding that day!

Welcome Baby Gibson! A San Francisco Newborn Session by Sonya Yruel

About three years ago I had the pleasure of getting to know Ryan and Jackie when I photographed their beautiful, fun, and love-filled wedding in Guerneville. Last month I was so honored to come and meet the newest member of their family, Gibson, who was just 16 days old. Their dog Louie seemed to also be very welcoming to Gibson, though he made sure to get the limelight for a few of the photos. I just received Gibson's newborn announcement in the mail and so I'm excited to share some favorites from their home session!

An Engagement Session at San Francisco Sutro Baths: Jessica & Scott by Sonya Yruel

Jessica and Scott just so happened to be neighbors, and met one day at BBQ. They hit it off, so one day Jessica took Scott to a HOT yoga class, which Scott endured! It seems that maybe Scott prefers colder temperatures, because then he took Jessica on a boat in Lake Tahoe (doesn't sound too bad!) and she watched as he swam the Trans Tahoe Relay Swim! Scott also swims in the San Francisco Bay.

Scott's proposal to Jessica took place on a ski trip at Breckenridge, Colorado. While on top of the mountain, Scott stopped to "fix his ski boot" and came up with a ring! These two adventured all over Sutro Baths with me on a beautifully sunny San Francisco Day.

I'm really excited to photograph their beautiful winter wedding at the top of Squaw Valley next year!

Jessica is an incredible entrepreneur! She believes in a balanced life and offers health coaching and wellness classes, as well as yoga at Beaming With Health. She also is the founder of Beam Financial Group, offering book keeping services and Quickbooks consulting.

Flower Bar Pop-Up for Fall! by Sonya Yruel

I'm always sad to see summer go-- who isn't? But I'm excited for fall temperatures, fall vegetables (spaghetti squash!), and most of all, fall colors! A recent little project with the talented Christina Vo of Conscious Style has gotten me feeling ready for fall. A few of these arrangements include one of my favorite flowers, the protea. Check out her Flower Bar at Viola on Castro street in San Francisco.

Juliana & Clement's San Francisco City Hall Wedding by Sonya Yruel

San Francisco's City Hall is one of the most beautiful places to have a sweet and simple civil ceremony. I am of course biased, because it's where I got married, but its stunning beaux-arts architecture and soft balcony window-light make it a true gem. Along with the romance, it's still a government building so there's the funny experience of being given a ticketed number to wait in line to check in to the County Clerk's office with any number of other brides and grooms. And most of the open areas are public space, so while taking your wedding photos you might happen to have a tourist rocking an Alcatraz sweatshirt in the background, but that's all part of the experience.

Juliana and Clement happened to meet at an airport, both catching different legs of their international flights. It was an absolute joy meeting them in person and seeing how much in love they are. Their small group of friends and family in attendance showed them so much love and support. Some of Clement's family took an incredibly long journey from Tanzania to come and witness their civil union.

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Ljubica & Milan's Serbian Wedding in Moraga, California by Sonya Yruel

Happy Anniversary to Ljubica and Milan! They were married one year ago today at the Holy Trinity Serbian Orthodox church in Moraga, California.

Ljubica's escort as she arrived at the church!

Milan with his Kum (best man)

One of my favorite moments of the day was how immediately following the ceremony, everyone processed outside.

They joined hands and danced a kolo to the festive accordian music!

During the cocktail reception, guests were given a sprig of rosemary or ruzmarin, traditional for slavic weddings.

Add Ljubica's family traveled all the way from her home country of Montenegro.

 She hadn't seen her father in six years, and their reunion was sweet. Particularly their dance together at the reception.

Alicia & Toño's Wedding at the Berkeley Brazillian Room by Sonya Yruel


Getting Ready Venue:  Claremont Hotel, Berkeley

Wedding Venue:  Brazillian Room, Berkeley

Coordinator:  Sarah Perna

Hair Stylist:  Corrina Hernandez

Make-up Artist:  Angela Womack

Florist:  Kirk Wilder

Catering:  The Arlington

Cake:  Allison Murray

DJ:  Jonathan Chapin

Limo:  On Demand Transportation

Treasure Island Wedding by Sonya Yruel

Kendra and Adam's wedding was a little bit jazzy Art Deco, old and new San Francisco, with touches of Kendra's crocheting! They wed under a family huppa at the

Treasure Island Chapel

, and celebrated at

The Winery

. After dancing up a storm to a live jazz band, they shared their dessert of delicious

Dynamo Donuts.

These two are so in love and they truly personalized their wedding; it was so fun to photograph!

Alicia & Toño's Engagement Session in The Haight & Baker Beach by Sonya Yruel

Happy Valentine's Day! I recently photographed these two lovebirds for their engagement session in the classic and colorful San Francisco neighborhood, The Haight. Then at sunset we zipped over to Baker Beach. I'm excited to photograph their wedding later this year!

 How they met:

Though Toño had had his eye on Alicia for months before, they officially met at a Halloween party in which Alicia was dressed as a space invader, complete with rocket ship and helmet; and Toño was dressed as himself.  The party was packed, and Alicia was in full swing on the dance floor, but the moment Toño walked in, it was as though the music halted and the sea of people parted between the two of them.  She stopped dancing and lifted her arm to wave to him.  He grinned and waved back.  They felt drawn together as if by some invisible force that night.  Even though they had never met, they felt as if they'd known each other for years.  They talked and talked, and just couldn't stop finding more and more things they had in common and loved about one another.  Alicia was forced to peel herself away to play host, but throughout the night, they always ended up back together.  They realize now, 2 1/2 years later, that the feeling they both got that night was love at first sight.  Though they waited to tell each other until later, that spark just couldn't be missed, and they each agreed that they both truly fell in love the moment they met.  And needless to say, each Halloween since that day, the two have come up with Halloween costumes together that continue to get more creative and silly each year!